Hypnosis can help deal with common insecurities because these insecurities are purely mental constructs and hypnosis is effective as a method of neutralising negative mental constructs and replacing them with a more positive and confident attitude towards yourself and your life, thereby making it easier to find and build a new relationship or strengthen an existing one. Nowadays at least, many of the more common insecurities cross gender boundaries, however some remain quite specific to either male or female.
The rise of the Internet has brought with it a significant increase in social awareness which crosses all boundaries, including of course gender. It used to be that it was mainly men who were concerned with things like politics, the economy and so on but now anyone with online access can do research and form their own opinions on things that they consider important. What this means is that nowadays men and women alike are often both aware of - and insecure - about the same things such as financial stability and job or career security. However many of the old insecurities about appearance, personality and so on are still of course with us. To a significant extent women still worry about the same things as they always have and the same goes for men.
Women. Many women, or at least a significant number of women, are insecure about their appearance. It somehow seems easier to find and focus on perceived "faults" than it does to focus on the positive. Body image and weight often feature highly in this regard. Breast size is also a source of insecurity for some women, though surely increasingly less so these days.
Age, though again less so nowadays, is something that some women have difficulty coming to terms with as they grow older.
Some women are concerned - or insecure - about how they are perceived by other women. Men tend to be less concerned or insecure about how other men perceive them. Women can also experience self doubt and anxiety about their relationships or interactions with men. Does he really like me and find me attractive? Will he call back? Does he just want to have sex with me and move on?
All these anxious thoughts and insecurities may seem natural, even inevitable, and up to a point they are. However they are not helpful with regard to your personal growth and development or to healthy relationship building. If you're a woman who feels hindered by self doubt and anxiety about this or that in relation to your personality and/or appearance you should focus on learning to integrate relaxation and positive suggestion into your daily life.
Men. Men can be more emotionally fragile than many suppose them to be. It certainly used to be and to some extent still is the case that male children are brought up to believe that they need to be strong, macho, no-nonsense type providers (hunters?) and that if they are seen to fail in this regard then they are in some way weak and inadequate.
This mindset of course creates a breeding-ground for insecurities. These deep rooted feelings of anxiety and insecurity are often transferred on to certain things or areas such as how dominant they can be, or not as the case may be, financial success, sexual prowess (the metaphorical notches on the bedstead mentality), height, penis size, hair, car, clothing and no doubt many other things.
In some ways it's almost like a sort of mirror image of the kind of insecurities that women can be prey to. Undoubtedly men and women - or at least those who need to - should focus less on worrying about what they think others might be thinking about them and focus more on learning how to truly relax, develop and build self belief and then be and do whatever they really want to be and do.
Hypnosis is an excellent way of dealing with common insecurities because it's about accessing the subconscious where the deeply ingrained thought processes that feed insecurities and anxieties stem from, then using deep relaxation to mentally "clear the decks", then replacing the negative mental impulses with a positive sense of self acceptance and self belief, thereby enabling you to be truly comfortable with yourself.
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